17 Best Sex Toys for Couples, According to Real Testers & Sex Therapists

Type: Wearable remote-control vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 10 intensity levels | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time | Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB cable

The Tiani Duo is similar to the We-Vibe Sync 2, with a tail that targets the G-spot and a larger, rounded end that vibrates against the penis during penetration (and the clitoris, too). Each end of the toy contains its own powerful motor for double the sensation. You can also intuitively control the toy’s eight intensity levels using the flick of your wrist while holding its soft, round remote.

Our reviewer says: My partner and I have tried a handful of hands-free, remote control vibes in the past few years, but this one stands out because of its design. Once you slip it in, you can tell it’s not going anywhere, and the wider external arm delivers a greater range of pulsations. —Glamour reviewer

• Why we love it: Can be worn during penetration for dual stimulation; motion-controlled remote
• What’s worth considering: Remote control reaction can be a bit laggy
• How to use it: Slide the slender end of the toy inside the vagina; its larger, rounded end hugs the clit to stay put. Wear it during penetration with a partner for G-spot, clitoral, and penis stimulation. You can experiment with positions, including missionary and doggy, and either you or your partner can control its vibrations with its motion-controlled remote.

Type: Wand vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 4 vibration patterns and 4 intensity levels | Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery with 3-hour run time | Waterproof: No | App compatibility: No | How to charge: Via charger cable

“The classic Magic Wand is not only my own favorite vibrator, [but] it has also been the best-selling vibrator for over 50 years,” says Nan Wise, PhD, a certified sex therapist and author of the book Why Good Sex Matters. The bestseller’s bendable neck, extra-soft head, long body, and super strength enhance its versatility. It can be used for massage during foreplay, or slipped between bodies in missionary position so that it rests on the clit. Slide pillows under one partner’s hips while they’re on their stomach, lean the wand against pillows so that it hits the vulva, and then have the other person finger them or enter from behind. You can even purchase a sex pillow that includes a pocket that secures and props up the wand.

Our reviewer says: Have you ever used a massage gun or a shower head and then sort of let it drift down because you’re curious what that sensation might feel like down there? That’s why this wand massager’s popularity endures through the decades—and exactly how I discovered the pleasure in using mine. I use my Magic Wand with my undies still on because it’s a little too intense without that fabric barrier. Its tennis-ball-shaped head delivers intense, rumbly, spread-out vibrations (across my muscles or my clit, either way). It’s wonderful for foreplay with a partner. Though it’s definitely not whisper-quiet, and my hand tires of holding it for longer than 10 minutes, its vibe patterns and intensities are powerful. This is no pinpointed vibrator, but sometimes that strength is exactly what I want. —Malia Griggs (the author), Glamour commerce editor

• Why we love it: Extra powerful vibrations; flexible neck; rechargeable battery
• What’s worth considering: Loud; relatively heavy at 1.5 lb.; not waterproof
• How to use it: Run it along the body for a relaxing massage and foreplay, or across the vagina and clit (through underwear or a blanket, if the sensation is too strong).

Type: Wearable vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 intensity levels | Battery: 4-hour rechargeable battery with 1-hour run time| Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cable

Used with a partner or solo, this hands-free vibrator fits in the vulva and rests between the labia during sex (leaving your hands free to explore). It comes highly recommended by Elana Gottfried, LMSW, a clinical psychotherapist and certified sex therapist, who says it allows for penetration and clit stimulation simultaneously—a little something for everyone. Pro tip: Use crotchless panties to keep it in place with zero effort.

Our reviewer says: The Eva is a very unobtrusive toy that tucks between your labia and sits on your clitoris. It’s surprisingly powerful for its small size and also works great for solo masturbation. It does occasionally move around, so it may require you to use your hands a bit. —Suzannah Weiss, Glamour sex writer and sex educator, who often uses it during partnered sex

• Why we love it: Waterproof, wearable design
• What’s worth considering: Limited vibration options
• How to use it: Squeeze the toy’s wings, then tuck it under the labia so it stays put.

Type: Suction vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 2-hour run time | Modes: 12 intensity levels | Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cable

If you have trouble orgasming from internal stimulation alone, our experts unilaterally recommend this suction toy. You or your partner can fit this suction toy’s hooded mouth over the clit during oral sex or penetration; it pulses airwaves against it (without actually touching it, which can wear it out). The luxury toy’s vibrations build from a gentle purr to powerful quaking, and it has a cruise-control feature that increases the toy’s intensity when pressed against the body

Our reviewer says: Unlike other vibes, you don’t need to move the Sona Cruise at all—place the mouth over your clitoris and it does all the work for you. The result? A deliciously good orgasm without having to lift a finger. It created a prolonged climax after a sensual buildup, the kind of drawn-out orgasm that still has you feeling tingly minutes later. While its competitors aim to get women off quickly, this is more about sustained pleasure. Worth noting though, it’s made of pretty hard plastic. The Satisfyer Pro 2, for example, is squishy where it comes into contact with your skin, so you can press it down without worrying about pain. But you’ve got to be careful with this one: Its power is unprecedented, and that's saying a lot for someone who’s tried a lot of alarmingly strong toys. —S.W.

• Why we love it: Wide range of settings; waterproof design; powerful
• What’s worth considering: Intensity may feel too strong for some; tiring to hold for long periods
• How to use it: Hover the mouth of the vibrator around the clit, then use its buttons to switch between patterns. It automatically increases in intensity the closer you press the toy to the body.

Type: Rabbit vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 7 intensity levels, customizable patterns via app | Battery: 3-hour rechargeable battery with 4-hour run time | Waterproof: No | App compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB cable

If you’re not going to be on top of each other—say, if you’re enjoying long-distance Zoom sex, or during mutual masturbation—this rabbit vibrator might be right up your alley. “Nora is for those who love rabbit vibes, intense clit stimulation, and G-spot stimulation,” says Aliyah Moore, PhD, a certified sex therapist. Each textured end rotates on its own to massage the C- and G-spots. Like all Bluetooth-enabled Lovense devices, it can be controlled by anyone in the world via an app and pairs with the brand’s other toys. Moore explains that while the length is great for beginners, the rotating head might be too thick for first-timers or those who prefer less girth.

Our expert says: This is an excellent rabbit-style vibrator with a flexible tip that allows you to bend it toward your clitoris. If you’ve been frustrated by rabbit toys not allowing you to reach both parts at once, the bendable tip helps to ensure both your G-spot and clit are having a good time. —Sarah Melancon, PhD, sex expert

• Why we love it: Dual stimuating; app-controllable; long-lasting
• What’s worth considering: Not waterproof or wearable
• How to use it: The vibe’s long arm rotates inside the vagina against the G-spot while its smaller arm tickles the clit.

Type: Panty vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 6 vibration patterns and 4 intensity levels | Battery: 1.5-hour USB-rechargeable with 2-hour run time | Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB cord

“This panty vibrator is powerful, discreet, and designed to be worn around the house or out to a party as your little secret,” says Jess O’Reilly, PhD, a Toronto-based sex expert and author. “You can remote-control it yourself or pair it with the free We-Connect app and let a partner join in on the fun.” The Moxie clips inside underwear with a magnetic fastener that keeps it from sliding around, has 10 rumbly vibrations to play with, and is easy to control with the We-Vibe app.

Our reviewer says: This panty vibe doesn’t have the bulkiness that others have so I can slip it into the pocket of my undies, and it’s a perfect, snug fit right up against my vulva. Although I appreciate the multiple vibration settings, the highest two aren’t necessary for me—which is really saying something because I love a super strong vibration. —A.C.

• Why we love it: Stays put; discreet; app controllable
• What’s worth considering: Vibrations could be stronger
• How to use it: Magnetically fasten the vibe inside your underwear, and hand the remote (or app-controllability) to your partner.

Type: Wearable remote-control vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 intensity levels and 4 vibration patterns (with more options via the app) | Battery: 85-minute rechargeable battery with a 5-hour run time| Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via USB

“The Lush 3 is a powerful wearable vibrator made from body-safe silicone that’s meant to be worn vaginally for rumbly internal vibrations,” says Dainis Graveris, certified sex educator and relationship expert. The largest bulb slips inside the vagina and softly hammers away at the G-spot, while the curved, flexible tail wraps toward the clit for a comfortable, snug fit. Despite its vibrating motor, Graveris says it’s discreet enough that you can wear it in public. Via its app, you can give your partner short-range or long-distance control over your experience—whether in the same room or across an ocean. Its five-hour run time is much longer than other remote-controlled vibrators as well.

Our reviewer says: This long-distance sex toy leads to blended orgasms (a.k.a. ones that come from your G-spot and clitoris at once), Weiss says, meaning you could be in for your best climax yet. Plus, she says, “it can sync to music or be controlled by a partner, so if you’re feeling adventurous, you can wear it out and about and enjoy the quiet and unpredictable vibrations in public settings.”

• Why we love it: Tons of vibration modes; long-lasting
• What’s worth considering: Might break down quickly
• How to use it: Insert the slim end inside the vagina, and allow the egg-shaped egg to contact the vagina. Control it via remote or app.

Type: G-spot vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 8 intensity levels | Battery: 2-hour USB-rechargeable with 4-hour run time| Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

Lelo Gigi 2 is a standout G-spot vibrator among sex experts, Glamour writers, and readers. The bestseller is designed for internal stimulation, but it feels great externally too. “Gigi 2 has been one of my absolute favorite vibrators since I first tried it,” Chatel says, who reviewed the toy for us. “For me, it’s not just the design that reaches my G-spot with ease, but the shape of the head—it’s not oval or round but flat. It’s this flatness that makes both G-spot and clitoral stimulation feel more full-body in its vibrations, as opposed to just directly and only genital.” It’s easy to navigate the wide tip internally, and its broad size dampens and deepens the vibrations that spread through the vulva and up to the clit.

Our reviewer says: When it comes to G-spot orgasms, Gigi 2 delivers more than the other G-spot stimulators of the dozens I have. It’s even made me squirt a few times. —A.C.

• Why we love it: Can be used internally; long battery life; girthy
• What’s worth considering: Tiring to hold for long periods
• How to use it: Grasp the toy’s handle and circle its tip around the vulva and on the clit before tilting the tip inside the vagina to thrust against the G-spot. It can also be used for clit stimulation during penetration.

Type: Prostate massager | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 6 vibration patterns and adjustable intensity | Insertable length: 5.5 inches | Circumference: 4 inches | Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery with 2-hour run time | Waterproof: Yes| App compatibility: Yes | How to charge: Via DC port

To kick your anal play up a notch, try this dual-ended prostate massager that curves inside the anus to hit the P-spot (a walnut-sized gland packed with nerve endings that can produce intense orgasms when stimulated). Its shorter arm, meanwhile, vibrates against the perineum, which can feel very, very good. The waterproof toy is paired with Lelo’s motion-controlled remote, so you can play without trying to find buttons. “My partner absolutely loves Hugo and during penetration, I get to experience the intense rumblings right along with him,” says Chatel.

Our reviewer says: It’s a great addition to your bedroom arsenal. It’s soft to the touch and just the right size and shape for people of any experience level. It might look big, but it’s designed to be the perfect size to tease the prostate. —Glamour toy tester

• Why we love it: Two motors; great battery; waterproof; motion-controlled
• What’s worth considering: It’s pricey and it takes time to get used to the remote.
• How to use it: Apply water-based lube, insert the toy’s longer arm anally, and use the remote to increase the toy’s power. We recommend using the Hugo as a warm-up for anal sex or on its own to heighten oral sex or mutual masturbation.

Type: Bullet vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic | Modes: 8 vibration patterns and 8 intensity levels | Battery: 1.5-hour USB-rechargeable with 2-hour run time | Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

This bullet vibrator is about the size of a tube of lipstick—so discreet and small that you could carry it in your clutch. It boasts strong sensations, including many patterns and intensities (perhaps surprising for such a petite package). Dr. O’Reilly tells Glamour that “its vibrations are powerful and deep” and the We-Vibe Tango X’s tapered tip “presses perfectly against the head of the clitoris.”

Our reviewer says: My favorite part about Tango X is that it has eight types of vibration patterns in a world where most bullets have less. I can also hold it for a long time comfortably. —A.C.

• Why we love it: Discreet; powerful; waterproof; precise clit stimulation
• What’s worth considering: It’s not for internal use; short run time
• How to use it: Grasp the toy like a wand and trail its pinpointed tip across the neck, nipples, vulva, and the head of the penis during foreplay and sex.

Type: Finger vibrator | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: 3 vibration settings | Battery: 1.5-hour rechargeable battery | Run time: 1.5 hours | Waterproof: Yes| App compatibility: No | How to charge: Via USB cord

A finger vibrator is a useful couples sex toy to have on hand (literally). It tethers to the fingers with a silicone loop that turns it into an extension of the hand. Trail it across your partner’s body for foreplay or during sex. “Fin is great for all erogenous zones,” says Chatel. “Whether it’s the clit, nipples, earlobes, or that super-sensitive part of the lower back, this vibrator won’t quit until everyone has climaxed multiple times.”

Our reviewer says: I appreciate how intuitive this toy is and how my hand doesn’t tire out from holding it, because it’s attached. Though I’ve since graduated to vibrators that offer a bigger range of intensities, I think it’s a nice, affordable vibrator to start with and fun to incorporate into foreplay. —M.G.

• Why we love it: Extra-powerful vibrations; versatile; affordable
• What’s worth considering: Charge time is longer than its run time; limited intensities
• How to use it: Perch the vibrator above or below your fingers with its tether, then lightly tease it along the body, vulva, head of the penis, and anywhere else that feels good.

Type: Strap-on harness and dildo | Material (dildo): Body-safe soft silicone | Insertable length (dildo): 4.5 inches | Maximum harness size: 68 inches | Waterproof: Yes

Here's an excellent deal for a strap-on harness kit—it includes everything you need to peg. Its harness is machine-washable, with a pocket for a bullet vibe and straps that adjust up to 68 inches along the hips. Its included dildo comes in the not-too-intimidating insertable length of 4.5 inches. The kit also provides three O-rings, so you can incorporate different-size dildos that you already own—or plan to buy in the future.

Our reviewer says: I love this set not just because it’s comfortable and easy to use, but because it’s not overwhelming when you put it on. As someone who prefers vibes with my dildos, I’ve also found that putting a vibrating cock ring (like the Lelo Tor 3) at the base against the O-ring really adds an extra thrill for both partners. —A.C.

• Why we love it: Affordable; versatile; beginner-friendly
• What’s worth considering: May not fit all body types; straps are challenging to adjust
• How to use it: Fasten the harness around one person’s hips, slide the dildo into its holder, and slowly push it into your partner’s vagina or anus, or against their prostate.

Type: Dildo | Material: Body-safe silicone | Insertable length: 4.33 inches (small); 6.69 inches (medium); 7 inches (large) | Diameter: 1.1 inches (small); 1.4 inches (medium); 1.6 inches (large) | Waterproof: Yes

The versatile Limba Flex dildo can be inserted in the anus, vagina, and mouth. Its extra-bendable shaft adjusts with the body’s shape but is rigid enough for strong thrusting. “You can flex it in all sorts of different directions for your just-right fit,” says Marla Renee Stewart, MA, an AASECT-certified sex educator and founder of Velvet Lips, who calls it “multidimensional.” It’s an excellent choice for strap-on anal play, its curved shape can more easily hit the G-spot during vaginal penetration or the P-spot during pegging, and its suction is strong. Plus, it's not intensely lifelike like many dildos.

• Why we love it: Versatile; curved enough to hit the G-spot; it’s not too lifelike
• What’s worth considering: Doesn’t vibrate
• How to use it: Hold the dildo at the shaft near its base if you want to insert it a little bit at a time. You can stick its suction base on a shower wall for hands-free play, or tuck it into a strap-on.The dildo comes in three lengths (we’d recommend starting with the smallest if you’re new to butt stuff).

Type: Butt plug | Material: Body-safe silicone | Insertable length: 5.5 inches | Circumference: 4.75 inches | Waterproof: Yes

Certified sexuality educator Amber Mallery, MPH, calls herself “a big advocate of butt plugs” for couples, no matter if you have a prostate or a vulva. The internal pressure “makes the vagina feel more cozy,” she says, and it’s especially fun if vibrations are involved. The B-Vibe Snug Plug is highly recommended by Cassandra Corrado, a sex educator. “They come in a variety of sizes and are beginner-friendly for the curious folks who want to start using anal toys,” she says. The smallest size starts at about the size of an index finger, and you can work your way up to its additional six offerings. It’s also weighted, which adds a feeling of fullness and pressure.

• Why we love it: Multiple sizes to choose from; weighted for extra sensation and fullness
• What’s worth considering: Not tapered, so removal may feel very abrupt
• How to use it: Apply lube to the rim of the anus (so that a finger or two comfortably fits inside) before gently sliding in the butt plug.

Type: Masturbation sleeve | Material: Body-safe silicone | Modes: N/A | Battery: N/A | Waterproof: Yes | App compatibility: No

This male masturbator is a cheap, easy-to-use toy for couples. One opening is ridged and the other is beaded for added texture that can feel great, especially as the sleeve is thrust up and down along the penis—either by you or by a partner during penetrative sex, anal sex, or mutual masturbation.

Our reviewer says: My partner and I were both blown away by this little $35 piece of silicone—we agree that it beats a hand every time. Cleanup is really easy too. —Glamour tester

• Why we love it: Entry-level price point; easy to use; easy to clean
• What could be better: Sucking noise can be loud during intense use
• How to use it: Coat its inner sleeve with lube, then push the penis into either end.