14 Best Male Masturbators for When Hands Just Aren’t Enough
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While you’re probably a pro at using your hands, there’s a reason the best male masturbators are so popular. When you’re in the mood for something a little more intense than regular old manual stimulation—in the middle of a dry spell, say, or home alone with nothing better to do—these sex toys can feel almost like the real thing, and sometimes even better. In fact, “research finds that men who use sex toys overwhelmingly report positive impacts on their intimate lives,” says Justin Lehmiller, PhD, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute. Plus, male masturbators can help you overcome issues like premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and even erectile dysfunction, he explains. Below are the best male masturbators, tested by Glamour reviewers and approved by sex toy experts. Don’t pretend you’re not curious.
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Best Overall: Maude Dome
Andrew Gowen / Glamour1/17Maude Dome
- Why we love it: Entry-level price point; easy to use; easy to clean
- What could be better: Can be loud during intense use
Double-sided and alluringly soft, the Dome is exactly the kind of no-nonsense toy that beginners and experts alike will enjoy. Simply lube it up and start stroking; the open-ended design works well for solo and partnered play and allows for easy cleanup. “My partner and I were both blown away by this little $35 piece of silicone—we agree that it beats a hand every time,” a Glamour sex toy tester raves. “Cleanup is really easy too.”
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Modes: NA
- Battery: NA
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best Upgrade: Lelo F1S V3
Andrew Gowen / Glamour2/17Lelo F1S V3
- Why we love it: App-controlled; intense hands-free vibrations; waterproof; two sizes available
- What could be better: Loud, especially on higher settings; might be too small
One of Lelo’s most underrated offerings, this automatic male masturbator is ideal for solo play, especially if you’re planning to settle in for a longer session. Things get even more high-tech when you download the accompanying app, which turns your phone into a remote control. There are also two sizes available, meaning most penis lengths and girths should be covered. “I was skeptical about how good this would feel, but I was proven wrong—it stimulates from all sides, with explosive results,” a Glamour reviewer says. “The F1S V3 is really worth firing up when you’re in the mood to play for a while, letting the sensations build up over time. I don’t love that it’s on the louder side and that there isn’t an open top, but cleanup is easy enough.” (Use it with one of the brand’s top-rated prostate massagers for even more intense results.)
- Material: Body-safe silicone, aluminum, polycarbonate
- Modes: 8 vibration settings
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: Yes
Most Realistic: Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit Lady
Courtesy of brand3/17Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit Lady
- Why we love it: Good size for most penises; lifelike appearance; removable sleeve for easy cleaning
- What could be better: Indiscreet look
If you know of only one male masturbator, it’s probably the Fleshlight—and for good reason. The OG sleeve has remained relevant because of its simplicity: a ribbed interior, just-right give, and a realistic entrance. (If this one doesn’t do it for you, the brand also offers a butt version; there’s also a suction base for hands-free action.) It’s got 8.5 inches of insertable length, which is more than enough for most people, and it’s a breeze to clean. The only drawback? That flashlight-styled exterior probably won’t fool anyone, so you might want to tuck it in a drawer when you have guests over.
- Material: Phthalate-free plastic
- Modes: NA
- Battery: NA
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best Value: PlusOne Personal Stroker
Andrew Gowen / Glamour4/17PlusOne Personal Stroker
- Why we love it: Affordable; two unique openings; discreet look
- What could be better: Can be loud during intense use
This no-frills toy looks simple, but it’s hiding a few tricks up its sleeve—pun intended. The double-sided interior lets you choose between two sensations: a tighter, beaded end and a looser, ribbed end. That blue shell, meanwhile, protects the silicone from damage while allowing you to customize your grip. When you’re done rinsing it off, set it in its vented carrying case for drying. “The internal material is squishy and skinlike, with a harder external sleeve for better grip, and it feels incredible when you add a bit of lube,” one Glamour sex toy tester says. “Despite being so affordable, this is one of the best strokers I’ve ever tried. Just note that because it’s open-ended, this thing gets loud.”
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Modes: NA
- Battery: NA
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best for Beginners: Tenga Egg Hard-Boiled II Variety Pack
Andrew Gowen / Glamour5/17Tenga Egg Hard-Boiled II Variety Pack
- Why we love it: No cleaning required; fits any penis size
- What could be better: Not eco-friendly
If you’re brand-new to the world of enhanced self-pleasuring, these single-use bestsellers are some of the best sex toys on Amazon. “To use them, you simply ‘crack’ the egg open and start stroking. Each one has just enough lube inside and a super-elastic plastic sleeve that stretches to a perfect fit for your penis,” a Glamour tester says. “They’re easy to use and feel more intense than a hand. I also love that I don’t have to worry about cleanup.” There are dozens of variations to try, meaning you can explore a bit before picking a favorite.
- Material: TPE plastic
- Modes: NA
- Battery: NA
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best for Couples: Fun Factory Manta
Courtesy of brand6/17Fun Factory Manta
- Why we love it: Waterproof; ergonomic handle; great for couples
- What could be better: Vibrations might not be strong enough
This high-quality vibrating masturbator stands out from the crowd with its unique shape, which features a long handle and rechargeable silicone wings that massage your penis. Because of its ergonomic design, this thing is especially suited to partnered sex—use it as you would a cock ring. And don’t worry about battery life, since it holds up to two hours of juice for playtime. “The wings are very flexible, so I’m certain they can handle most people’s penises. I love that the buttons are on the handle for easy use,” a Glamour toy tester says. “The open end is great for messier play, and while I haven’t yet used it with a partner, I think it would make a great addition to a blow job. It’s surprisingly powerful, and the battery lasts forever.”
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Modes: 12 vibration settings
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best Blow Job Simulator: Blowmotion Suction Vibrating Male Masturbator
Courtesy of brand7/17Blowmotion Suction Vibrating Male Masturbator
- Why we love it: Ergonomic design; option to immediately go to the highest setting
- What could be better: Not waterproof
“If you’re looking for a step up in solo play, the Blowmotion is the toy for you,” says Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd, a sex educator and Lovehoney sex expert. “The sensations replicate oral sex, so you can enjoy a similar experience when your partner’s jaw or mouth gets a little tired.” When you’re ready to finish, there’s a button that immediately triggers the toy’s highest vibration and suction settings—think of it as turbo mode that builds to the big O.
- Material: Soft plastic
- Modes: 6 vibration settings
- Battery: 80-minute rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: No
- App compatibility: No
Best Hands-Free: Fun Factory Cobra Libre II
Courtesy of brand8/17Fun Factory Cobra Libre II
- Why we love it: Fits most penises; strong vibrations
- What could be better: Limited range of uses
Perhaps the most unusual male masturbator we’ve tested, Fun Factory’s Cobra Libre consists of a silicone “mouth” that’s three inches deep. At the back, two rumbly motors provide intense attention to the tip of your penis, which a Glamour toy tester describes as “like receiving a blow job from a robot, but in the best way. This isn’t a pick for beginners, but it’s great for anyone who wants to add a powerful toy to their arsenal. The hands-free design is totally unique and fun to hump or rest on your stomach.” Better yet, a partner can grind on top while you use it.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Modes: 11 vibration settings
- Battery: 2-hour rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best Sleeve: Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential
Courtesy of brand9/17Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential
- Pros: Waterproof; easy to clean
- Cons: Limited battery life
Thanks to its open-ended, easy-to-grip design, this stroker is especially well-suited to better-than-usual hand jobs and oral sex—especially once you activate its powerful vibrations. Toggle between six patterns and eight intensity levels while you or your partner builds you to orgasm. Be prepared for intensity, though; its interior provides pinpointed vibrations on your frenulum, the extra-sensitive spot just below the head of the penis. “This product will get a quick rise for those guys who may be experiencing difficulty getting a proper erection. Not too noisy either,” one Lovehoney reviewer writes.
- Material: Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
- Modes: 14 vibration settings
- Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best for Long-Distance: Lovense Max 2
Courtesy of brand10/17Lovense Max 2
- Why we love it: Customizable vibrations; connects to other toys via Bluetooth
- What could be better: Not waterproof
Lovense makes some of the best long-distance sex toys on the market, including this male masturbator toy that vibrates and contracts to tease you to orgasm. With your partner controlling the interactive show from afar, you’ll never know exactly which different sensations are in store—perfect for keeping the spark alive when you’re apart. (And if you’re flying solo, you can even connect the powerful motor to media and use virtual reality goggles for a different experience.) “Easy to use, both with or without using the app, though I would highly recommend using the app, as it offers many more features both solo or with others,” a Lovehoney reviewer writes. “I would highly recommend this toy for anyone in a long-distance relationship; a partner can control the tightness and vibration patterns with ease through the app, even if they don’t own the toy itself.”
- Material: ABS plastic, TPE plastic
- Modes: 4 vibration settings
- Battery: 3.5-hour rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: No
- App compatibility: Yes
Most Targeted: Arcwave Ion
Courtesy of brand11/17Arcwave Ion
- Why we love it: Unique sensation; fits a wide variety of penises
- What could be better: Pricey; drying case is only okay
Arcwave bills this toy as the equivalent of a clit sucker for men; essentially, it blows pulses of air directly at the most sensitive part of your penis. “I won’t say that it feels like how I’ve heard the rose toy described, but it’s a unique sensation that’s great for when I’m craving something different than regular old masturbation offers. If you have money to spend and you’re curious, I’d recommend it,” a Glamour tester says. “I’m not very impressed by the drying case, which doesn’t work as quickly as I’d like it to, but it’s far from a dealbreaker.”
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Modes: 8 vibration settings
- Battery: 70-minute rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best for Oral Sex: Romp Mosh Reversible Stroker
Courtesy of brand12/17Romp Mosh Reversible Stroker
- Why we love it: Affordable; fits most penises
- What could be better: Might be too tight
Whether you’d rather call this versatile toy a stroker or a pocket pussy—we’ll leave that distinction up to you—Romp’s no-nonsense toy will more than pull its weight during your sexcapades. “[This] is an enjoyable choice for coupled play because it is soft and flexible enough to be squished down for use while also using your mouth,” Frye-Nekrasova says. “The reversibility is also great because it allows you to experience different sensations.” Use it solo or enjoy the inner nubs for a deep-throat effect. Simple, cheap, high-impact—it’s the whole package.
- Material: TPE plastic
- Modes: NA
- Battery: NA
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
Best Heated: Lovehoney Blowmotion Warming Masturbator
Courtesy of brand13/17Lovehoney Blowmotion Warming Masturbator
- Why we love it: Lifelike sensation; can be used hands-free
- What could be better: Vibration could be stronger
Warming other toys with hot water works for a little while, but this stroker will outlast the best of ’em: Its three-inch interior warms up to 104°F, simulating a blow job with stunning accuracy, even when you’re just enjoying a regular self-hand job. It also rumbles, with six vibration modes and three intensities each. “Requires a decent amount of lube and full-strength vibrations maybe don’t last as long as I’d like, but it almost always gives a very strong orgasm,” one Lovehoney reviewer says.
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Modes: 18 vibration settings
- Battery: 1-hour rechargeable battery
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: No
- App compatibility: No
Best Adjustable: Arcwave Voy
Courtesy of brand14/17Arcwave Voy
- Why we love it: Adjustable tightness; realistic feel; discreet case
- What could be better: Loud; delicate material
The “unique advantage” of this compact men’s sex toy, Dr. Lehmiller explains, is its adjustable tightness. As you thrust into its soft, ribbed interior, you can twist the hard shell to tighten and loosen the canal—and re-create the feeling of a vagina, anus, or throat. “You can customize it for just the right ‘grip’ you’d like to feel,” Dr. Lehmiller continues, which is great since every penis is shaped differently. A Glamour sex toy reviewer agrees that the adjustable tightness is worth the hype: “It’s fun getting to switch things up with just a few clicks, and it’s honestly refreshing that there are no vibrations. I don’t love that the material is more delicate than regular silicone; it can tear with more vigorous use.”
- Material: Body-safe silicone, plastic
- Modes: NA
- Battery: NA
- Lube compatibility: Water-based
- Waterproof: Yes
- App compatibility: No
15/17What types of male masturbators are there?
Among the pantheon of male sex toys—or toys for people with a penis—male masturbators are some of the most popular options on the market. “When it comes to pleasure, the more options we have, the better our sex life, right?” says Andrew Smiler, PhD, a licensed therapist and author of Dating and Sex: A Guide for the 21st Century Teen Boy. “A masturbator can increase the options.”
There’s a huge spectrum of male strokers out there, with products ranging from squishy sleeves (better known as pocket pussies) to high-tech blow job machines. All of them are designed to be penetrated by a penis; the vast majority have a skinlike silicone interior that’s just the right blend of soft and structured. And most of them can be filed into two main categories: sleeves and strokers.
- Masturbation sleeves: Great for solo use, these feature longer shafts meant to envelop most or all of the penis at once. You can choose between open- and closed-ended options, depending on what kind of feel you prefer and how easy you want cleanup to be.
- Strokers: These toys are also known as pocket pussies and are about the length of your palm or less. They’re usually open-ended, making them ideal for couples play. More of your penis will be exposed, meaning there’s more room for mouths, hands, and other body parts to join in on the fun. Some of them have rigid outer shells for structure and easy grip.
Plenty of the best male masturbators have no bells and whistles beyond silicone that feels shockingly like the real thing, be it oral sex, vaginal sex, or anal sex. But you can also find vibrating strokers, which add extra sensation for more intense climaxes. If you’re just starting to build your collection, it’s fine to stick to the plainer sleeves; if you’re more of a pro, consider this your sign to take self-pleasure to the next level.
16/17What should you look for in a male masturbator?
“The first step is figuring out what you want and what seems like the best fit for your comfort level and body,” Justin Lehmiller, PhD, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, author of Tell Me What You Want, and Lovehoney scientific adviser, explains. “A stroker you control with your own hands can be great and won’t set you back much in terms of cost. But every person—and penis—is different! While the high-tech strokers are pricier, they’re more customizable.”
In terms of size and girth, most male masturbators are silicone and can expand to accommodate pretty much any size. If you’re working with a thinner or shorter penis, look for toys with smaller openings and pliable outer shells, which will allow you to squeeze the stroker around yourself. If you have a thicker or longer penis, prioritize open-ended designs so you’re not hitting a wall over and over. Always check the insertable length and the reviews for any adult toy you pick.
17/17How do you use male masturbators?
First off: Lube is nonnegotiable. Personal lubricant is a necessity with these toys, which only feel great once they’re slick. Stick to water-based lubes, though, since silicone-based ones can actually start to degrade the silicone you’re thrusting into.
From there, sleeves and strokers can be used in any way you like. There’s the classic stroking motion, of course. But you can also hold your toy in place and thrust into it, attach it to a mount—Fleshlight makes ones for the shower and the bedroom—and hump it, or do virtually anything else you imagine. You can even get into a bit of temperature play to make these toys feel even more like the real thing; submerge the silicone sleeve in warm water for at least 10 minutes before you get started. (Just make sure it’s a waterproof toy before plopping it in the sink.) Experts say you can absolutely use it as a sex toy for couples, whether you use it during foreplay or penetrative sex. There are no rules here—just be creative and have an open mind.
Once the warm, post-climax glow wears off, you’ll need to clean your toy. The vast majority of silicone toys are easy to wash with soap and water, so don’t worry about loading up on lube and letting bodily fluids fly because washing afterwards is simple. Whichever stroker or sleeve you go for, give it a scrub after every use, rinse well, and then let it air-dry completely.
